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Apr 9, 2026 — Stealing Moments and The Magic of the Space Between
Most people treat waiting as wasted time.
But what if the moments in between—the sideline, the pause, the quiet gaps in your day—are where everything that matters is actually happening?
From an unexpected scene during an NFL playoff game to a forgotten book that took 16 years to be discovered, this issue explores a powerful truth: the way you use the in-between moments shapes everything that follows.
Take Two
No one should settle for a half-lived life.
WORDS TO WONDER
"You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."
— Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic philosopher (121–180 AD)
PERSPECTIVES TO PONDER
During an NFL playoff game in January 2025, cameras caught something no one expected.
Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver A.J. Brown was on the sidelines—and he was reading a book.
Not scrolling. Not pacing. Not hyping himself up.
Reading.
The commentators were stunned. As the camera zoomed in, the title came into focus: Inner Excellence—a book about mastering your mindset.
A.J. Brown reading Inner Excellence on the sideline
In the middle of one of the highest-pressure environments in professional sports.
It would be easy to dismiss as strange.
But look closer, and it reveals something worth thinking about.
When A.J. Brown stepped onto the field, he competed fully. But when he stepped off it, he didn't switch off—he simply shifted. From performing to preparing. From output to input.
He understood something Marcus Aurelius understood two thousand years ago:
The outer game is always downstream of the inner one.
You can't control the defense. You can't control the crowd, the calls, or the moment the ball comes your way. But you can control what's happening in your mind—how you think, what you focus on, how you respond.
That's not a small thing. That is the thing.
This hit close to home for me.
I'm a fast-paced person. Waiting has never been a strong suit. Doctors' offices, the DMV—the wait was torture. I'd feel frustration building with every passing minute, as if the time were being stolen from me.
Then someone offered a simple suggestion: bring a book everywhere you go.
It changed everything.
Suddenly, the wait wasn't wasted time. It was reading time. The places I dreaded became the places I actually looked forward to—because I knew I'd get uninterrupted pages. With the Kindle app on my phone, I now carry an entire library in my pocket. What used to feel like time being taken from me became time I was quietly grateful for.
A.J. Brown figured out the same thing—just on a bigger stage.
The sideline wasn't downtime. It was an opportunity. The in-between moment was the preparation.
Most of us treat the gaps in our day as interruptions. The commute. The wait. The quiet Tuesday afternoon. But those gaps are always something—the only question is whether we choose what they become.
Marcus Aurelius didn't write his Meditations for publication. He wrote them for himself—daily mental training in the margins of running an empire. No cameras. No crowd. Just a man, doing the inner work, in the in-between moments.
The sideline is never just the sideline. The wait is never just the wait. The in-between is where it happens—if you choose to show up for it.
The next time life makes you wait—don't kill time. Steal it.
ONE QUESTION WORTH SITTING WITH
Are you someone who kills time—or someone who captures it?
MORE TO THE STORY
Jim Murphy spent years writing a book about mastering your mindset.
He poured his experience as a mental performance coach into every page—working with elite athletes, studying what separated the good from the truly great, distilling it into something practical and transferable.
Inner Excellence was published in 2008.
It didn't make a big splash. No bestseller lists. No viral moment. No major press. For sixteen years, it sold quietly—appreciated by those who found it, largely unknown to everyone else.
Then, on a January afternoon in 2025, a camera happened to zoom in on an NFL sideline.
And everything changed.
Within days of A.J. Brown being spotted reading it during a playoff game, Inner Excellence shot to #1 on Amazon. It became a nationwide bestseller. Sales increased by—and this number is not a typo—53,000,000%.
Sixteen years of near-silence. Then one unexpected moment, and the world finally caught up to the work.
Jim Murphy didn't do anything differently. He had simply done the work—carefully, honestly, over a decade prior—and trusted that it had value.
He was right. The world just needed time to find out.
This is worth sitting with.
Because most of us measure the impact of our work in real time. We write the article and watch the clicks. We launch the project and check the response. We put something into the world and wait—impatiently—for the world to confirm it mattered.
But impact doesn't always announce itself on your schedule.
Sometimes your work is quietly sitting on a shelf somewhere, waiting for the right person to pick it up at the right moment—and set off a chain reaction you never could have predicted.
You may never know who reads what you write. Who is shaped by how you lead. Who carries forward something you said in a conversation you've long since forgotten.
Influence doesn't always earn applause.
Sometimes it's just a camera zooming in at exactly the right moment—sixteen years later.
So keep doing the work. Do it well. Do it with intention.
Your moment of recognition may simply be running on a different timeline than you expected.
BEFORE YOU GO
The waiting room. The sideline. The space between what just happened and what comes next.
These aren't gaps in your life.
They're part of it.
You don't need more hours in the day. You might just need a different relationship with the ones you're already standing in.
Just steal the moments.
The in-between isn't empty.
It's available.
Stay inspired by the life you're living.
Kevin
Mar 26, 2026 — Just Beyond the Spotlight
What if the most meaningful parts of your life aren’t the ones everyone applauds?
From an unexpected moment at a concert to the hidden significance of an ordinary day, this issue explores why the moments we almost miss often matter the most—and how noticing them can change everything.
Take Two
No one should settle for a half-lived life.
WORDS TO WONDER
“There are always flowers for those who want to see them.”
— Henri Matisse, French Artist (1869–1954)
PERSPECTIVES TO PONDER
Life is full of center stage moments.
The obvious. The loud. The things designed to capture our attention.
They demand our focus—pulling our eyes toward what’s highlighted, amplified, and expected.
But sometimes, the most remarkable moments aren’t happening under the spotlight.
They’re unfolding just beyond it.
Years ago, I attended a concert by Billy Joel. He was, as you’d expect, incredible. Hit after hit. A lifetime of music filling the room.
But what I remember most didn’t come from center stage.
It came from the edge.
One of the band members—a woman named Crystal Taliefero—sang backup, played the saxophone, and moved effortlessly between instruments. At one point, she was playing the tambourine, dancing in rhythm with the music, completely in sync with the moment.
Crystal Taliefero with Billy Joel
And then it happened.
She clipped her microphone with the tambourine.
The mic popped loose from the stand and began to fall.
I braced for the thud when the microphone would hit the ground.
But instead—without breaking rhythm, without missing a beat—she pivoted, caught the microphone between her knees mid-fall, steadied it, returned it to the stand… and kept playing like nothing had happened.
It was seamless. Almost invisible.
I remember thinking: Did anyone else just see that?
The crowd kept cheering. The music carried on. The moment passed.
But it stayed with me.
Because it reminded me of something we often forget:
Life isn’t just made up of the big, obvious highlights.
It’s made up of small, unscripted moments—moments that reward presence, awareness, and a willingness to notice what others overlook.
There are flowers everywhere.
Moments of beauty. Skill. Humanity. Surprise.
Most people miss them.
Not because they aren’t there…
…but because they aren’t looking.
Most of what makes life memorable doesn’t announce itself.
It happens quietly.
Just beyond the spotlight—waiting for those who choose to see.
THIS DAY IN HISTORY—MARCH 26
I’ve always loved history.
With only 365 days in a year, it means something remarkable has happened on every single one.
Today is March 26.
On this day:
Ludwig van Beethoven passed away, leaving behind music that still moves the world centuries later
Jonas Salk announced he had successfully developed a vaccine for polio—saving millions of lives
Guns N' Roses signed their first record deal, beginning a journey that would redefine rock music
And it’s also the birthday of:
Diana Ross
Steven Tyler of Aerosmith
Leonard Nimoy
And poet Robert Frost
When they were born, no one knew what they would become.
No one knew the music they would compose, the lives they would save, or the words they would write.
Today, there are extraordinary things happening we know nothing about.
People are being born who will change the world.
And maybe—without realizing it—you’ll do something today that will matter to someone in the future.
What makes a day meaningful is what we choose to do with it.
History isn’t just something we look back on.
It’s something we create—one day at a time.
What will you do today that might change someone’s tomorrow?
THE DAY MY TURTLES BECAME DUCKS
I remember the moment I decided I wasn’t creative.
I was in first grade, staring at a blank sheet of paper, trying to paint a masterpiece… and instead, I ended up painting something else entirely.
What happened next shaped how I saw myself for years.
It’s a simple story—but it raises a powerful question:
Are you living your life… or someone else’s version of it?
Read the full story: The Day My Turtles Became Ducks
BEFORE YOU GO
Life is more than the big, obvious moments.
Some of the best ones happen just beyond the spotlight.
We don’t have to have everything figured out—
but we do need to stay curious.
And don’t forget: every day, including today, holds the potential to become meaningful—if not historic.
Stay inspired by the life you’re living.
Kevin